suggestions for lighting both a person and a Christmas Tree?

Happy Thanksgiving dgrinners! Was wondering if anyone has any suggestions on lighting a Christmas tree so that it maintains it's ambiance while also exposing correctly for a person next to it? This will be done on a black background with a 3x4 softbox and rigid reflector. I also have a kicker strip light to use for hair. Any ideas? Tried for 15mins yesterday until the little 4 year old had had enough! Never did get it right....
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Hey Sandy, Gel the light you are going to use for the christmas tree and the main lights to Tungsten filters. WB to Tungsten and you should be golden. I recommend your sexy giant softbox for the main. ;-) Can't wait to see them.
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This is what I did, don't know if it helps!
http://www.dgrin.com/showthread.php?t=151887