Almost there, last few items...

First thing, I would like to thank everyone here who has helped everyone else get their sites set up. I have been the recipient of much help just by reading the various threads. Now... I have read and searched for every possible fix to do this myself, but I am now lost. I only have a few things left before I am satisfied with my site until I decide to change later.
Red arrow: On my drop-down items, I would like to make the boxes have rounded corners. Also the ability to make the background of the drop-down items faded or almost translucent but I don't know which slider controls the background of this item. I have tried what another person posted in an attempt to help me, but it didn't work and I could not figure out what to change in the code to make it work....
Blue arrow: I managed to make my corners rounded for all photos in the galleries ( smug mug style ) and all galleries and folders. As you can see by the arrow, for all folders and gallery boxes, the lower right corner on all are still square. I assume this is a padding or spacing issue because the thumbnails in my galleries are all rounded. Any ideas?
Green arrow: Same as above... but with the 1px outline. It works on my thumbnails, but I would also like it on all folder and gallery items.
Red arrow: On my drop-down items, I would like to make the boxes have rounded corners. Also the ability to make the background of the drop-down items faded or almost translucent but I don't know which slider controls the background of this item. I have tried what another person posted in an attempt to help me, but it didn't work and I could not figure out what to change in the code to make it work....
Blue arrow: I managed to make my corners rounded for all photos in the galleries ( smug mug style ) and all galleries and folders. As you can see by the arrow, for all folders and gallery boxes, the lower right corner on all are still square. I assume this is a padding or spacing issue because the thumbnails in my galleries are all rounded. Any ideas?
Green arrow: Same as above... but with the 1px outline. It works on my thumbnails, but I would also like it on all folder and gallery items.

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This is what I'm using:
Thanks again for your help.
Lance
Would go buy a lotto ticket, but I think I used up all my luck figuring this out....