OMG -- Diva has finally worn me down

BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
edited November 14, 2013 in People
Diva, this is my official declaration of surrender :bow in your war on my "sexy" stuff.

As you all may know, I have been moving away from generic fashion/swimsuit toward more concept driven shoots where possible. As you may also know, Diva routinely beats me to death for my models going for sexy or for what she perceives as me having "pretty girl" syndrome (which I adamantly deny). These two factors have now apparently converged and Diva is declared the winner.

Yesterday I attended a group shootout for the first time in over a year. This is the Russian crew that my friend organizes and I attended regularly for 2 years or so. Anyway, I went basically as moral support for another friend who was nervous about shooting models for the first time. I suggested this was a good way to get his feet wet.

During my 7 hours at the shoot it repeatedly occurred to me how different this all was from what I've been doing recently. The Russian models are stunning, true, but with 4-5 guys snapping away at them there's no real connection to the camera, no real concept to the shoot and no commitment from the model other than "I'm gorgeous and standing here in my underwear." :dunno

While there was a time I was fine with this, my major reaction yesterday was to be bored silly.
Apparently tall, gorgeous and semi nude is no longer enough. There actually has to be a reason behind the click. HMMMMMM:scratch

I had intended to use this shoot to learn about the 1D Mk2 I recently bought to play with but, despite 7 hours with 9 models running around in various scanties, I didn't shoot 100 frames and, frankly, 90% of what I did shoot will never make it to Bilsen Galleries.

So that's it. Diva, if you'll join me on the decks of the USS Missouri, I will sign whatever you require for this unconditional surrender.:rofl
Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
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  • SamSam Registered Users Posts: 7,419 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    Stevie,

    Put your damn paints on and don't play wupped subjugated Mr. politically correct. You ether have ( what the Diva calls) pretty girl syndrome or you think everyone is an idiot.

    Show me a guy from age 6 to 100 who says he doesn't enjoy the sight of a pretty woman and I will show you a lair or a gay man.

    Women are no different!!

    Ask them would you rather have a photo of this guy over your bed or George Cloony and see what the answer is.
    i-zHLJBms-L.jpg

    Now as to the photography side of this. I ABSOLUTELY understand where you are coming from with the gang photography group. I don't understand why anyone would pay to get in line with dozens of photographers to shoot a bored model using the exact lighting and background as anyone else.

    You enjoy photographing pretty woman. You have demonstrated growth and increased quality and visual impact with your images. Don't cower in the corner. Stand tall.

    Sam
  • divamumdivamum Registered Users Posts: 9,021 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    :curtsey :curtsey :curtsey

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    Thankyew, thankyew, thankyewverymuch...............

    I am flattered that what I have said has become meaninful. I'd say a lot of other people tried to get the same idea across, but weren't as blunt as I was about it - I guess I get the "rude enough to beat you over the head with it" award :D

    I think it was Nik who once said (maybe even to you?) something along the lines of "There's more to getting great pictures of attractive women than most people think there is...." :D

    PS Sam, I did not coin "pretty girl syndrome" - not my expression. My points have been that self-consciously "sexy" is often anything but, and that I suspect sometimes our friend sees the experience HE had while taking the shots in the images (meaning rapport with model, comments made, jokes, things the model may have done between shutter clicks which were "sexy" etc) rather than looking at the resulting shots with an objective eye, and/or relies on the model's inherent "hotness" to do the job rather than helping with lighting, posing, styling assistance etc etc etc.
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    Laughing.gif no worries Sam. I remain as politically incorrect as I have ever been.

    Pretty Girl Syndrome is my phrase to describe what Diva was accusing me of. After 170 or so beautiful women I am LOOOONG past that. I was granting her her point that when some of my models go for overtly sexy I have gotten bored with it. IN NO WAY does that mean I concede that I LOVE gorgeous women, just that now there needs to be more than "Hi, I'm pretty and I'm naked". Laughing.gif I should tell you that one of my winter concepts this year is "Maxim" style lingerie. we'll see what happens.

    Diva, if you saw my latest thread you'll see what I mean. I cannot possibly go for sexy with my own DiL but I think her stuff was killer. I was admitting that what used to be sufficient is now boring to me as a photographer. As a male, I'm still fine with it though. Hopefully, that won't change.
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
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    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • divamumdivamum Registered Users Posts: 9,021 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    Yes, I meant to comment on those but have been so busy I didn't have a chance - definitely a killer set. And wayyyyy more so than some of her earlier "let's be sexy now" stuff (which IMO wasn't). By Jove, I think he's got it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! iloveyou.gif
  • divamumdivamum Registered Users Posts: 9,021 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    PS I can't find any right now (again, run off my feet), but I think it would be a neat exercise to find a really sexy image of a famous actress/model and see WHY we think it's hot. Where is the line between "sexy" and the "awkward photos" shortlist?? lol

    I'm gonna guess it's way more than "she's gorgeous"; it would be an interesting analysis. I have thoughts, but would love to know what others see/think........... thumb.gif
  • jonh68jonh68 Registered Users Posts: 2,711 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    divamum wrote: »
    :curtsey :curtsey :curtsey

    iloveyou.gif

    Thankyew, thankyew, thankyewverymuch...............

    I am flattered that what I have said has become meaninful. I'd say a lot of other people tried to get the same idea across, but weren't as blunt as I was about it - I guess I get the "rude enough to beat you over the head with it" award :D

    I think it was Nik who once said (maybe even to you?) something along the lines of "There's more to getting great pictures of attractive women than most people think there is...." :D

    PS Sam, I did not coin "pretty girl syndrome" - not my expression. My points have been that self-consciously "sexy" is often anything but, and that I suspect sometimes our friend sees the experience HE had while taking the shots in the images (meaning rapport with model, comments made, jokes, things the model may have done between shutter clicks which were "sexy" etc) rather than looking at the resulting shots with an objective eye, and/or relies on the model's inherent "hotness" to do the job rather than helping with lighting, posing, styling assistance etc etc etc.

    Yep

    I don't think the criticisms have ever been that the shots are too sexy. Like Sam said, if you are alive both sexes like shots of beautiful people.

    There has been a disconnect between what YOU think is sexy and what we as viewers think is a good photo. Just because the subject may look great in the photo doesn't mean the photo itself is great. I've had sessions where I didn't feel any connection with the subject but once I started to edit, the pics turned out great. I've also had sessions where I thought they would be incredibly hot as the session was fun, we clicked etc. Got home and the pics were dull. I enjoy the process as much as anyone. It's fun being around beautiful women. However, you can't let that cloud your objectivity.


    Back to Diva's point and your reaction to yesterday. You said you got bored silly. It kind of seems to me this would be the time to be excited about the photographic aspects of the task at hand. Is your motivation to hang out with beautiful girls and have a connection with them or get beautiful pictures?

    Put it in another way, would the picture look great even if the subject wasn't? You will get praised by most people even if the photograph is bad just because the subject is attractive. I've shot everything from stuffed animals to my camera bag trying to learn new lighting techniques. You don't need a connection with the model to make a great picture.

    What we like and dislike is always subjective of course. I've read the critics about your work and I have also critiqued as well. It isn't about being too sexy. It's about the total photo.
  • divamumdivamum Registered Users Posts: 9,021 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    What John said. WAY better than I ever have!! thumb.gif
  • jonh68jonh68 Registered Users Posts: 2,711 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    divamum wrote: »
    PS I can't find any right now (again, run off my feet), but I think it would be a neat exercise to find a really sexy image of a famous actress/model and see WHY we think it's hot. Where is the line between "sexy" and the "awkward photos" shortlist?? lol

    I'm gonna guess it's way more than "she's gorgeous"; it would be an interesting analysis. I have thoughts, but would love to know what others see/think........... thumb.gif

    My thought is kind of the paparazzi/snapshot vs a real portrait session.

    An actor/actress all dolled up for a red carpet premier is going to look fabulous no matter who takes the photo. The subject is the star and what makes the photo.

    A photo session becomes much more collaborative. If I see a cover photo of same subject and notice the lighting, pose, background choice, and location then I think this is a great and well thought out photo. It takes a "hot" subject and adds the creativity of a "hot" photographer. If you put an average looking person in the photo it would still look great.
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 10, 2013
    Thanks Jon BUT you and I are gonna disagree a bit. (IMAGINE me disagreeing rolleyes1.gif)

    Anyway, we agree that the subject will define the image. However, while my objective has never been to hang out with pretty girls (adding any two of which are STILL too young for me) I definitely think I have better frames when there is a connection with the model.

    My friendship with my tippy top model, Cyndi started two years ago with shoot # 1. Didn't know what it was but we clicked immediately. 30 or so shoots later, there is still a difference when we are working together, hence my sub-category of BilCyn Images (BILsen and CYNdi). Same with Anylza. We pick up the camera and bam, off we go. The three of us were the collaborative team on the World Tour project and I have never had more pure fun in this hobby.

    On your last comment, we also agree. This afternoon I did a Santa Claus and kids shoot as a favor to a friend (she now owes me BIG time Laughing.gif). The images came out great and the parents are thrilled. To me, carefully metered and framed as they are, they are just snapshots. (OMG did I just use that hated term??) I have exactly ZERO emotional investment in them.
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • Bryce WilsonBryce Wilson Registered Users Posts: 1,586 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    OK, so like, where are the images of the "stunning models in their underwear"? ne_nau.gifDrolleyes1.gif
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Forgive me Bryce, how could I tease like that.

    Here's Meela doing exactly what Diva hates:
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    and here are a few that I actually coaxed out of Wyoletta during the 5 min I had alone with her

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    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • jonh68jonh68 Registered Users Posts: 2,711 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Photography wise I think these are some of your best. Lighting is great and the models looks great without forcing it.
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Thanks Jon. I was able to snag a couple when I had a few minutes alone before the paparazzi style shooters came in behind me.
    The first two are all ambient natural light which is still my strongpoint.
    For the 2nd two I got to adjust the lights in a cyclorama room, again before the crowd came in.
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • DreadnoteDreadnote Registered Users Posts: 634 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    I think I have to agree with Diva, Bilsen. These photos illustrate the point perfectly. Take this shot from your non-sexy post:

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    I look at this image, the light in her eyes, her smile, really everything about it, and I think "DAMN! what's her number?"




    Now look at this other image from this post:

    i-Lb2wrs2-X3.jpg

    This one kinda makes me think "porn star" and "where is the hand sanitizer?"

    Anyway, I guess what I'm trying to say is the same thing the maker of the modern bikini said (and I'm paraphrasing here) - "The bikini is hot because of what you don't see, it leaves a little bit to the imagination."

    The overtly sexy images don't leave anything to the imagination, you know exactly what she is selling, whereas a beautiful girl with a twinkle in her eyes, now thats hot!
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  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Agreed Dread.

    I think that's exactly the point I made in my OP. Diva has been at me forever (one reason I love her so much iloveyou.gif ) and I was finally conceding the point and admitting that I have moved more toward her thinking with my last 5 shoots (including Kay, the one you picked out).

    I still enjoy sexy women being sexy but now I need a reason photographically. For example, I actually like the frames of Wyoletta that I posted above. But that's about 10 frames out of an 8 model, 7 hour day.
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • DreadnoteDreadnote Registered Users Posts: 634 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Bilsen wrote: »
    Agreed Dread.

    I think that's exactly the point I made in my OP.

    I know, I'm just glad to see that you have rounded the corner. Your recent work rocks btw! thumb.gif
    Sports, Dance, Portraits, Events... www.jasonhowardking.com
  • kombizzkombizz Banned Posts: 267 Major grins
    edited November 11, 2013
    Sam wrote: »
    Stevie,

    Put your damn paints on and don't play wupped subjugated Mr. politically correct. You ether have ( what the Diva calls) pretty girl syndrome or you think everyone is an idiot.

    Show me a guy from age 6 to 100 who says he doesn't enjoy the sight of a pretty woman and I will show you a lair or a gay man.

    Women are no different!!

    Ask them would you rather have a photo of this guy over your bed or George Cloony and see what the answer is.
    i-zHLJBms-L.jpg

    Now as to the photography side of this. I ABSOLUTELY understand where you are coming from with the gang photography group. I don't understand why anyone would pay to get in line with dozens of photographers to shoot a bored model using the exact lighting and background as anyone else.

    You enjoy photographing pretty woman. You have demonstrated growth and increased quality and visual impact with your images. Don't cower in the corner. Stand tall.

    Sam

    nice funny capture
    I love it
  • DreadnoteDreadnote Registered Users Posts: 634 Major grins
    edited November 12, 2013
    kombizz wrote: »
    nice funny capture
    I love it

    How does the lyric go?

    "Nobody loves me, everybody hates me
    Think I'll go and eat worms
    Long ones, short ones, fat ones, thin ones
    See how they wriggle and squirm

    I bite off the heads, and suck out the juice
    And throw the skins away
    Nobody knows how fat I grow
    On worms three times a day
    Ohh...nobody loves me."
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  • SamSam Registered Users Posts: 7,419 Major grins
    edited November 12, 2013
    Dreadnote wrote: »
    How does the lyric go?

    "Nobody loves me, everybody hates me
    Think I'll go and eat worms
    Long ones, short ones, fat ones, thin ones
    See how they wriggle and squirm

    I bite off the heads, and suck out the juice
    And throw the skins away
    Nobody knows how fat I grow
    On worms three times a day
    Ohh...nobody loves me."

    Good find!! I had forgotten all about this little ditty.

    I only remembered the I'll eat worms part.

    Sam
  • kombizzkombizz Banned Posts: 267 Major grins
    edited November 12, 2013
    Dreadnote wrote: »
    How does the lyric go?

    "Nobody loves me, everybody hates me
    Think I'll go and eat worms
    Long ones, short ones, fat ones, thin ones
    See how they wriggle and squirm

    I bite off the heads, and suck out the juice
    And throw the skins away
    Nobody knows how fat I grow
    On worms three times a day
    Ohh...nobody loves me."

    Eat worms, eat fat worms
    mix it with mud
    eat worms
    squeeze worms
    mix it with your beer
    say cheers to all
    never care more
    eat worms
    because worms love you
  • jmphotocraftjmphotocraft Registered Users Posts: 2,987 Major grins
    edited November 12, 2013
    I think there are three kinds of hot. One is "I want to boff that", another is "I want take her/him home to meet momma and then propose", and the third is the rare perfect combination of the two.
    -Jack

    An "accurate" reproduction of a scene and a good photograph are often two different things.
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    Forgive my ignorance, but I don't get it.
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
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    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
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  • SamSam Registered Users Posts: 7,419 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    Bilsen wrote: »
    Forgive my ignorance, but I don't get it.

    Get what??

    Sam
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    The connection to that lyric?? It's funny but nowhere near as funny as that image you posted.
    Now THAT'S funny right there.rolleyes1.gif
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • DreadnoteDreadnote Registered Users Posts: 634 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    You don't get the connection between a picture of a guy with a worm in his mouth and an ages old campfire song for kids about eating worms? I'm not really sure how to further explain it...


    Oh we'll, it was off topic anyway. Sorry for the hi-jack. ne_nau.gif
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  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    No worries Dread. I just missed the worm. Laughing.gif
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
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  • TinstaflTinstafl Registered Users Posts: 355 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    You know I have kind of come to the same conclusion. Now I have to have a reason and want to make a set up for the shoots.
  • BilsenBilsen Registered Users Posts: 2,143 Major grins
    edited November 13, 2013
    I think there are three kinds of hot. One is "I want to boff that", another is "I want take her/him home to meet momma and then propose", and the third is the rare perfect combination of the two.

    I missed this one in the hail of worms JM. Which one is she??mwink.gif
    Bilsen (the artist formerly known as John Galt NY)
    Canon 600D; Canon 1D Mk2;
    24-105 f4L IS; 70-200 f4L IS; 50mm 1.4; 28-75 f2.8; 55-250 IS; 580EX & (2) 430EX Flash,
    Model Galleries: http://bilsen.zenfolio.com/
    Everything Else: www.pbase.com/bilsen
  • jmphotocraftjmphotocraft Registered Users Posts: 2,987 Major grins
    edited November 14, 2013
    Bilsen wrote: »
    I missed this one in the hail of worms JM. Which one is she??mwink.gif

    Which one is who?
    -Jack

    An "accurate" reproduction of a scene and a good photograph are often two different things.
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